Umugore uri mu rugo ruyobowe n’umugabo umufata ku ngufu mu buryo bwo kumugenzura, asanga ihumure — ndetse n’ukwihorera — mu rukundo rw’ibanga afitanye n’umusore ukiri muto, ariko ibintu bigatangira kugana ahabi kugeza bihindutse intambara yo kurokoka ubuzima bwe.